Ep 53: How To Set Healthy Boundaries With Your Kids
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What are boundaries really? Because kids naturally don’t like rules, they will always try to break them, negotiate, not do it, … But I also didn’t want to force, push, or yell at my daughter if she said no or didn’t listen.
Because I didn’t want her to grow up into being me: the one who always listened and never said no out of fear, and ended up becoming a resentful people-pleaser, walking on eggshells not to make mommy mad = afraid of not being loved.
So is it even possible to have rules and get them respected without yelling and all that drama around it?
I won’t sugar-coat it, this one took me a while to figure out because I didn’t have any healthy role models growing up.
So this is where I’m at with it right now, perfectly imperfect…
You can catch this episode on Youtube at https://youtu.be/FK8UCjILepc
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Alena Gomes Rodrigues is a mommy tantrum specialist and the founder of the Zen Supermom method.
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