Hard Hats & Hidden Struggles: The Problem with Mental Health in the Trades, with Russ Payne

Mid-life Men: the mental health podcast

In this episode, I’m joined by Russ, a third-generation tradesman, business owner, and host of The Talking Tradesman podcast. Russ has spent a lifetime in construction, a sector known for its tough culture and silent battles, especially around mental health. He shares his powerful journey, starting with his childhood, where he was raised by his father after his mother left the family, leaving Russ to grow up fast and take on responsibilities beyond his years. At just 17, Russ took over the family business, but behind his professional success, he was struggling.
After a painful divorce, Russ was forced to confront his own mental health challenges, Through candid reflection, Russ talks about the toll of balancing work and mental well-being in a tough industry that can be lonely and often discourages vulnerability with many men developing problems with alcohol and drug dependency, aggression and depression. His own journey has pushed him to study psychology, volunteer with Samaritans, and eventually start a podcast that aims to open up vital conversations within the trades.
Russ emphasises that many men do want to talk but often don’t have a safe space to do so. He shares insights on why listening - truly listening - without judgement is a powerful first step in supporting those who are struggling. Whether you’re in construction, know someone who is, or just want a deeper understanding of how mental health impacts those around you, Russ’s story will leave you with valuable insights and practical advice on creating safe spaces for honest conversations. Join us for an episode that’s all about strength, vulnerability, and the surprising power of simply being there.
Russ's podcast is called The Talking Tradesman.