Polyvagal Safety Cues & Loved Ones: Why You Don't Feel Connected (maybe)

Stuck Not Broken

Learn why you might have difficulty accepting safety cues, even from your loved ones. Your Polyvagal state acts as a filter and changes your perception of your interactions with others.

00:00 Introduction and Viewer's Question

00:52 Understanding Safety States

01:39 The Role of Interpersonal Relationships in Safety States

03:45 The Impact of Defensive States on Perception

05:48 Building Strength in Your Safety State

07:28 Alternative Avenues for Anchoring Safety

08:20 Conclusion and Invitation to Join Trauma Recovery Courses

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Crisis resources:

• National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 [phone]
• National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 [phone]
• LGBT Trevor Project Lifeline - 1 [phone]
• National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 [phone]
• Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741
• Call 911 for emergency

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Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

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Shutdown to Stillness Cohort 3

I can't wait to see you in Shutdown to Stillness cohort #3! To sign up, become a Total Access Member through the link below. https://www.justinlmft.com/totalaccess These are the dates and times for Cohort 3: - Wednesday, October 30, 3-4:30pm PST - Wednesday, November 6, 3-4:30pm PST - Wednesday, November 13, 3-4:30pm PST - Wednesday, November 20, 3-4:30pm PST