#005: Why Men Pull Away -v- Why Women Pull Away | How Pulling Away Brings You Closer Together |

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Do you feel like your partner is distancing himself from you and the relationship?

Are you distressed, anxious and confused? One minute your partner is being attentive, loving and warm then he doesn’t even want to talk!

Are you worried that you’ve done something wrong and are you blaming yourself?

Don’t blame yourself and Don’t try to get closer to him at this time.

How Women Interpret a Man Pulling Away

Women may misinterpret a man’s pulling away because when a woman pulls away it is usually because she is unhappy about something, either she does not trust him or her feelings have been hurt or he has disappointed her.

If you are going through this pulling away cycle with your partner, then step back and speak to one of our MEDIUM PSYCHIC’S ONLINE who will guide you through this cycle.

Men pull away at each point of the intimacy cycle to re-energize themselves and they need the freedom away from the relationship to grow into the new level of intimacy. Men don’t pull away because they fall out of love, it is how they regenerate energy and are able to move to the next level in the relationship.

Why Men Need To Take Time Out

Men need to take time out to reflect after a period of emotional growth. This is not about ending the relationship. It represents a new cycle in the relationship. One person usually the man needs time-out to reconnect with the emotional aspect of himself to enable him to give more to his partner and the relationship.

The relationship is not static; it requires both people to grow and evolve both individually and together. Sometimes men can take longer to grow intimately and may need more time out before coming back to the relationship full and ready to give love.

A man may need to pull away to gain the freedom he needs to re-energize himself and reflect on the next phase of the relationship. Once he has this freedom, he will return full and ready to immerse himself back into the relationship at the point where he pulled away, ready to immerse himself back into the relationship. The woman may feel that he is taking advantage of her. She may feel that he is behaving as if nothing has happened, but from his perspective, it feels normal, he only went off to refuel himself. He may not know how to articulate this to her and so it can leave her feeling confused and used. This pulling away and returning behaviour in the man will occur throughout the relationship’s life-span.

Conclusion

Don’t worry! Your relationship is not in jeopardy, it is actually evolving but requires both parties to have a good understanding of how each deals with the new level of growth in the relationship. Each phase of the relationship requires both to open up and be comfortable being vulnerable trusting the other in order for them to become enlightened and experience an enlightened relationship. In order to enjoy higher levels of intimacy at each stage of the relationship, it requires both parties to let go of baggage from the past. The man may need a little more time to do this; hence he pulls away or goes into his ‘cave’.

While he is in his ‘cave’ you should take time out to work on your ‘selves’ physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Go on a mental, emotional and physical detox, because when he returns he will be a new man and you want to meet him where he is not where he was.

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