7: Hector Castillo | College Social Circle Game

Girls Chase Podcast

Hector Castillo discusses social circle game, meeting women at university, and what it's like to work in nightlife with host Varoon Raja. Selected topics of conversation... • How social circle functions as an exchange of value (1:48) • Why reputation matters when she choose whom to sleep with (4:55) • The ‘tabula rasa effect’: how being new will often get you laid (5:51) • Reputation as a ‘tandem bike’ - both parties reap rewards and punishments (6:22) • Once you’re on top, can you stay the king of the hill? (8:55) • Where the ‘player’ fits into social circle and what his rules are (9:22) • ‘Players’ hooking up lots versus ‘alphas’ taking hot girlfriends (9:57) • Why there are no ‘good’ or ‘bad’ reputations in social circle (11:40) • What kinds of value you can provide in social circle (13:13) • How to use the attention you receive from others (15:03) • Why reputation serves as precedent (17:44) • Why most popular guys are so ‘chill’ and how to be it (18:36) • Questions girls can have when they see men with reputations (19:30) • The trap of being liked for the sake of being liked (20:38) • Personalities of the cool-but-introverted types (22:04) • How women collect intel and scout men (23:21) • Keeping your image vs. trying to excel your image (25:58) • Risks of not sticking to your reputation once built (28:10) • Why you be touching much more (32:10) • How do men improve with women and when to start (34:36) • Recommendations for men currently in college (36:28) • How nightclubs differ from college game (37:20) • Benefits of working in the nightlife industry (38:56) Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-7-hector-castillo LEARN SOMETHING GOOD? SUBSCRIBE AND REVIEW! If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe in iTunes and leave a review. This helps us reach more ears, and casts your vote for “Yes! Make more episodes!”