WEEKEND NUGGET - Sex vs. Love

Divorce: The First Six Months with Peter Maestrey

In this wonderful episode I look at what it is that these two words represent. We begin with what webster defines them as, and then I share my two cents on what it represents to me. This episode does not approach the topic from a first six months perspective, but had I heard this within the first six months of my story, I believe I would have been further along in my process. Having distinguished what both these words represent to me being here today, and then having heard the episode you are about to hear before submitting it. I was able to notice the value these two words had prior to my divorce, and the value they have today.
I make an attempt to look at how my thoughts were created around the two, the influences, and the way it shaped me into today. I make an attempt to detail the effect it has had on my choices, as well as, my life. My hope is that it opens up a new thought process for you, as it did for me. Becoming aware of something so intrinsic has allowed me freedom around the choices i make today. I no longer have the weight, nor the significance around the two that once kept me from soaring or exploring beyond what I know or have known.
My personal takeaway from this episode is that I am, whatever I say, that I am. That I am happy because I honor who it is that I say, that I am. And it is within those choices that my sexuality, my sexual combinations, and the way I create my sexually charged process is a direct expression of who I am. And that it is different and the same each time.
So, when I look at the partners that life has placed on my menu, I am both grateful and appreciative. They have navigated to me to the person that I am today. A man who switches from sex and love, sometimes in the same thrust. And that whichever thrust is occuring, it is okay with me, so long as it is what I desire.