A podcast by two queer african girls just trying to get through life. The Wildness with Tiff and Manda is here to chat about sex, existence, politics, the every day and everything in between. With the help of a whole host of guests from around the continent, the Wild Ones, Amanda Hodgeson and Tiffany Kagure Mugo sit down, pour a glass of the vino and unpack life’s various messiness because sometimes what you need is a little wine, a little friendship and a little chat to get through this lif ...
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What is chosen family? Why is it such an important and very real thing? Why do the gays need it? Why has Tiff taken so long to watch pose?The Wild Ones Chat how to navigate having to create your own loves.Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & MandaAmanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_h…
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[Repost] The Wildness Ep 30: New Label Who Dis?
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Labels! We all have them, most of us use them but are they helpful or nah? In this episode Tiff and Manda interrogate labels, including whether or not they fit the criteria of being wild! (spoiler alert!! THEY DO)Also have you ever run Cliterfearance? Are you part of the Muffia?The Wild Ones chatted about suss these labels out.A podcast by two quee…
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[Repost] The Wildness Ep 17 Miss Fifi The Great: What are you naming your juicy bits?
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What are we naming our collective pu**y? Can you say the word 'vagina' to your parents? What are the myths around vaginas? Is your vagina meat a sexual burrito? And what the hell are meat curtains?Also what is a lesbianic job?The Wild Ones sit down and discuss how we are naming our vaginas and how we speakingA podcast by two queer African girls try…
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What actually counts as cheating? Does Manda know how to cheat? Can you cheat if you are poly/in an open relationship? What should you tell yourself after you have been cheated on?The Wild Ones unpack all the different parts of stepping out on your situation.Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda…
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Is babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!!The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation,…
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The Wildness Ep. 45: Calling Out Call Out Culture
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What is call out culture? Why is it a scam? Who gets the call out culture clap back and how does call out culture happen? Do Tiff & Panda even know how to behave? Has it been four years since the wild ones podcasted? Also shout out to the padded cell. Thanks Ciku for telling Tiff about beauty YouTube.Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness a…
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How do you get a threesome on and poppin? Should you do a lil research before getting into the vibe? What about a small date inyana? Can it be romantic?Can Tiff & Manda fix the wildness that was the episode with Botho and Sibu?Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & MandaAmanda on Twitter @manda_hodge a…
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What is the Friendzone? Should be getting a** from folks cause you nice to them? Are people just running a long con by being nice? Why is the idea of the friendzone shady af?The Wild Ones tackle what it means to be getting sad someone ain't trying to sex you.Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda…
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The Wildness' Valentines Day Re-Load: How To Deal With A Break Up
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All good (and bad) things come to an end. Much as queer want a fairy tale romance and happy ending it can sometimes turn into an all mighty sh*t show and you end up breaking up. So in this episode throw back we are going to chat about breaking up. The Wild Ones chat about them final moments in a relationship.A podcast by two queer African girls try…
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Valentine’s day is here and what better time to figure out if your relationship is doing proper things. It’s time to ask: Is babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass ain…
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IT IS SEASON 3 AND THE WILD ONES ARE BACK!For this episode we break down what this here Wildness thing is and also Leon asks us some Teen Vogue type questions.What are the wild ones afraid of? What is their fave thing? Which celeb would the Wild Ones want as squad?Its #20plenty and it’s time to get this year on an poppin’!Buckle in Wild Ones, it sh…
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The Wildness Ep.41: What's Popping 2019! Ya Bish
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Its about that time of the year again people! We're wrapping up season 2 by having a little chat about what popped (and didn't) in this year of our Beyonce 2019!And we shall see you all in the year of our Lizzo 2020!WE OUT .... B***CH Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & MandaAmanda on Twitter @manda…
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The Wildness Ep 40: Sexy Safe Subbing w/ Chido
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In the second instalment of the BDSM series Tiff and Manda are chatting with the Chido about being a sub. So what is a sub? What is a dom...actually what is a tech dom? Where do you find one? Does everyone have to be covered in leather? Do we have to be snaaxxing or nah? Did Leon clean the stu? And what does Tiff being a war journalist have to do w…
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The Wildness Ep 39: Dark Juices The Erotica anthology: Chatting sex writing with Chido (and Panda)
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Is there a sexy poem at 14:00 mins in to the podcast? Yes. Did the wild ones have a guest? Was there an erotica anthology released? Also what is a muse and are they naked. This podcast will answer these questions. Also Chinue Igwe drops us a poem. A sexy erotic poem. Chinue on instagram: @chi.nuancedDark Juices can be downloaded here –Mobile versio…
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Abuse in LGBTIQ relationships is something that we are silent about. We not trying to speak about it and just hiding it. Manda and Tiff speak about abuse in queer relationships, the second closet and how abuse is different in queer spaces.The Wild Ones return with part II of abuse in queer relationships and spaces. If you have not listened to part …
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The Wildness Ep 37: Abuse in Queer Relationships: Time to talk about it Pt I
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TW: Mention of physical abuse and sexual violenceAbuse in LGBTIQ relationships is something that we are silent about. We not trying to speak about it and just hiding it. Manda and Tiff speak about abuse in queer relationships, the second closet and how abuse is different in queer spaces.The hosts discuss how abuse in queer spaces can take different…
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The Wildness Ep 36: Asexuality 101 : Is it more about a lack of snaxxing and sexing? (Spoiler: yes)
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What is asexuality? Can you be sex positive and asexual? Why do people want to fix asexual people? How do you know you are asexual? Can you date and be asexual? Panda and Tiff learned ALL the things during this podcast. Some people ain’t f*cksing with the fuxxing and they are not broken. Come learn how. Links to check out:What is asexuality - http:…
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The Wildness Ep 35: The one about heteronormativity (and other hot messes)
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The Wild Ones discuss heteronormativity in this episode and it is well… wild. Tiff is off on a tangent. Panda says she is having someone else’s baby. Someone walks out the stu. Leon says listen with caution. Despite the chaos we actually manage to drop some wisdom on heteronormativity and what it be. (it’s a little longer than the average but love …
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The Wildness Ep 34: Faking orgasms: Why are we doing it?(a lil somethin' for the straight honeys)
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Why is faking orgasms more complex than a few moans and eye rolling for a little while? Why are people faking orgasms? Why did Tiff snitch on herself about faking? Does Manda's vag*na twerk? And Manda has faked COUNTLESS orgasms with men. Where does Leon keep going whilst in we the stu? Tiff and Panda were trying to turn it up in the studio to New …
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The Wildness Ep 33: Polyamory 102: The praxis of polyamory a.k.a how to do it
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Are you high key cheating? Is Tiff trying to engage properly with polyamory? Had Manda grown in her polyamory? Did the Wild Ones answer a series of questions about polyamory and how to do it? Yes. Are those jungle sounds in the backgrounds?Make sure you listen to polyamory 101 episode (episode 6):https://soundcloud.com/thewildnesstiffandmanda/the-w…
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'Do The Homie! Do The Homie!'Hooking up with squad exes. Are we having the convo of ‘does they do that thing?’ It is a hard to detach? Should you centre yourself? How did they end? How long were they together? Who is deserving of love?*boxing commentator voice* Comrades, feminists, activists and esteemed Wild Ones...Are you reeeaaaddddyyyy to ruumm…
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The Wildness Ep 31: Sliding into the DMs - is the internet helping/hurting our snaxing?
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Is Panda using lube? How are people finding that person to grind up on a Friday night or love forever as a queer person on the continent? What is Tu? Why is data so expensive sometimes? What are the inclusive apps? How can apps be used against you within your own country?Accessing the internet is also exclusive. In this podcast we break down dating…
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The Wildness Ep 30: New Label Who Dis?
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Labels! We all have them, most of us use them but are they helpful or nah? In this episode Tiff and Manda interrogate labels, including whether or not they fit the criteria of being wild! (spoiler alert!! THEY DO)Also have you ever run Cliterfearance? Are you part of the Muffia? The Wild Ones chatted about suss these labels out. A podcast by two qu…
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The Wildness Ep 29: Masturbation: Knowing your body, busting the myths and closing the orgasm gap
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Is masturbation always political or can it be just to get off? What are some of the messed-up myths around masturbation and women? Also do you HAVE to have candles when I rub one out (can masturbation not take all day please?)Why is Leon drink shaming us? And why has Manda got ANOTHER best friend? We teach you how to say Botho’s name?The Wild Ones …
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Where does everyone get their sexy things? Should Panda pay for rent or pay for feminist p*rn? Is Tiff watching the whole p*rn clip or just the snax? Also womxn really like p*rn and spend more time on adult sites on average than their male counterparts.The Wild Ones are discussing sexy times. Shout out Tlangi! Panda and us love you! And do we need …
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‘A girl crush is a non-sexual, non-romantic admiration that one woman has for another.’ What is that anyway? Are the straight women outchea thinking people is cute? When you say it are you secretly saying ‘no homo’? The Wild Ones discuss the phrase girl crush and whether you need #WCW in your life.Follow The Wildness on Instagram: IG the.wildness a…
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Is being sex positive mean you are constantly Down To F**k? Do you have to be constantly be looking to get a finger in your butt randomly? Are period snacks a real thing? Also how have we never done a sex positivity podcast?The Wild Ones sit down and chat about how to do this sex positive thing. Shout out to our white girl Casey who pole dances! Al…
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The Wildness Ep 25: How To Deal With A Break Up
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The Wild Ones chat about them final moments in a relationship. Follow The Wildness on Instagram - the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & MandaAmanda on Twitter: manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodgeTiff on Twitter: tiffmugo and Instagram: kagsmugoHOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: @HOLAAfrica…
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Where have the wild ones been? How do you send your naked body over the interwebs? Why is revenge porn a scam?And we’re baaaaaaaccccckkkkkkk!!!! Welcome to Season 2 Wild Ones. Tiff and Manda have been plotting away in the stu coming up with awesome episodes for season número dos. This episode we do a young recap of what the wildness is for baby Wil…
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What popped with Tiff & Manda in TwentyGAYteen? Moving, heart breaks, studying, starting podcasts, violence in the community and movement, f**ky politics, good friendship and showing up for people, why folks aint s**t and being on NGO boards. The Wild Ones count down their top things that happened, chatting the high lows of 2018. Grab your last gla…
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What should you do when the family are stressing you? Do you have to turn up for EVERY family event? Is Netflix and hide a real thing? What should you do when being around loved ones are triggered?Not everything is your circus and not everyone is your monkey.The Wild Ones give this extra special Christmas episode to help you navigate the holiday ti…
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What IS 16 Days of Activism? Should there be a queer feminist critique of the campaign? Is this s**t working? What are the different types of violence we need to look out for outside of putting your hands on someone?Also we ask @QueerWoc on a podcast date! The Wild Ones chatted about 16 Days of Activism and how it needs to thought of in different w…
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How do we define bisexuality? What are the myths of bisexuality? Does sleeping with a woman for 8 years disqualify you as being bisexual? Are you a monosexual? So what if I want sleep with errbody? Did Tiff see Sheena and Shaka in Nepal? How has Amanda been charging her phone whilst Tiffy was aware?Can you pay your rent off foot fetishes?The Wild O…
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How well should you plan? How many carbs should you eat? How much drama should you pack in your luggage? There are a whole host of wet and wild things to ensure you live your best baecation life! The Wild Ones chatted after Manda went on a fuck-cation and has returned to give us all the juice and the do’s and don’ts of snaxxxing (also known as sexi…
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The Wildness Ep 18: Chatting reading butt naked w/ Alicia and Sibongile from NGR JHB
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What do you do with your tampon when reading naked? How can naked reading help with loving your body? And why is Facebook such a hater?Also New hashtag: #Censortivity The Wild Ones sipped vino with Sibongile and Alicia from Naked Girls Reading Johburg and discussed what it's like to read with no clothes on. Could they do it? Who knows.A podcast by …
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The Wildness Ep 17 Miss Fifi The Great: What are you naming your juicy bits?
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What are we naming our collective pu**y? Can you say the word 'vagina' to your parents? What are the myths around vaginas? Is your vagina meat a sexual burrito? And what the hell are meat curtains?Also what is a lesbianic job?The Wild Ones sit down and discuss how we are naming our vaginas and how we speakingA podcast by two queer African girls try…
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The Wildness Ep 16: Bring Forth The SQUIRT!
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What is squirting and what is the biology behind it? Can you learn to squirt? What does squirting have to do with the rivers in Rwanda? Did Tiff need to squirt or did she need to pee? What countries are searching squirting on the internet?And why is Amanda but naked on the couch?We kept catching feelings about Coachella even if it happened ages ago…
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The Wildness Ep 15: HOLAA in A Hot Spot: Poly lifestyle , learning new skills in bed and scary sex
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Should I hide my poly lifestyle from my new squeeze? What do you do if your partner knows new things in bed without learning them with you? What do I do when my girlfriend sexually hurts me?Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by tackling these questions on this episode of The Wildness, answering your burning questions so life doesn't sh…
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Will you eat edible panties if they come in the form of a thong? Our fave feminist farmer (NOT Criminal Minds things doe!) is back on the podcast and this time we’re chatting Food and Sensuality. Fam did you know that such a thing exists beyond edible undies? We chat about whether or not women who do not like to eat can be trusted, the awesome chef…
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Is babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!! The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation…
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How do you deal with homophobic tendencies whilst being queer? How do you ask to be spanked in bed? How do you deal with having feelings for your friend? Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by tackling these questions on this episode of The Wildness, answering your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.Follow The Wildness on…
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The Wildness Ep 11: The One Where Sibu and Botho are kinda hot (but won't be in a three way)
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How did the convo go from masturbation to having threesomes? Why wont Botho and Sibu be in a group event? How do you just FALL into a threesome? Why is Tiff trying to watch people have sex? Also Manda flashes us in the studio. Conferencing is also a mess. A whole mess. The Wild Ones sat down with Botho Maruatona and Sibu Malunga.A podcast by two qu…
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The Wildness Ep 10: The Wildness asks Haji Mohamed Dawjee to marry them
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What can white people do to be better? How do you navigate sexuality and being a gay Indian? Does Haji like sex during the day? Why was Manda a sad panda? Also Haji joined a cult. A whole cult.The Wild Ones sat down with Haji, author of the awesome 'Sorry not Sorry experiences of a brown woman in a white South Africa', a book that explores the ofte…
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The Wildness Ep 9: ‘To Spank Or Not To Spank’, chatting BDSM with Fadzai
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This week the Wild Ones have a sit down with an awesome guest to chat Bondage, Domination, Sadomasochism and Masochism (BDSM). What’s in a name? Does all kink have to be called BDSM? Does it have to hurt? What the hell is a hard no and a soft yes? Also consent my people...C.O.N.S.E.N.T. Grab your homies and a glass of wine and lets chat kink and BD…
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The Wildness Ep 8: Sitting down to chat about 'She Called Me Woman' and Nigerian queer women
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*Warning: this podcast had ALL the technical issues, we shall get our Skype game right.*Through first-hand accounts, She Called Me Woman challenges us to rethink what it means to be a Nigerian ‘woman’, negotiating relationships, money, sexuality and freedom, identifying outside the gender binary, and the difficulties of achieving hopes and dreams u…
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The Wildness Ep 7: HOLAA in a Hot spot: Cheating, an affair gone love sick and crushes on roommates
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What do you do when cheat on every woman I date with a man even though I hate the sex? Or you have now caught feelings for the married older woman you were having an affair with? And what do you do if you have a crush on your (potentially straight) roomate?Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by tackling these questions on this episode o…
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Is Polyamory giving you stress? You're not the only one love. With tricky terms such as triads, truplets, primary partners and main partners, menamors and metamors, who can blame us for having a minor ‘system cannot compute’ moment? Also is it really just highkey cheating? Are there sister wives involved? Is it a tiny competition? The Wild Ones, Ti…
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Is it about how much sex you have or is it how you DO the sex? Also what if you are having no sex? Or too much sex? How do you chat to your partner about the fact that you do not want to see them butt naked? Can tantric sex fix your relationship?The Wild Ones, Tiff and Manda poured a glass and chatted about getting some from your significant other.…
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The Wildness Ep 4: How do you safely eat ass and what is a dental dam? Safe sex between two women
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This one is a little of a throw back, the wildness BEFORE the wildness. This was how it all begun. The one where Tiff proposed and Manda said yes. Do you have sex with other women? Do you use dental dams? Is there SUCH as thing as safe sex between two women? Should you go down on your partner when they menstruating? How do you eat ass safely? Can a…
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The Wildness Ep 3 : HOLAA in A Hot Spot: Leaving a relationship, polygamy problems and giving head
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The Wild Ones give advice on leaving a relationship, polygamy problems and going down on an ex girlfriend whilst not going down on your current one. HOLAA in A Hot Spot, Answering your burning questions so life doesn’t show you flames! The Wild Ones share some wisdom and answer questions that have been submitted via HOLAAfrica. Catch these answers …
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