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You Don’t Love Me Podcast with Amir and Aamir. Life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. We discuss all things from growing as people, our learnings from life, all the way to our stupid and funny stories! There are some rude and crude jokes on the way too so...be warned! Leave a review, subscribe and enjoy.! You will find us on apple podcasts, spotify, google podcasts and many more places! (reviews welcome)! You can also watch episodes on our youtube channel: @youdontlovemeboys ...
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Sometimes Love Isn’t Enough: The Parenting Through Challenges Podcast - A practical yet heartfelt podcast for parents who are overwhelmed by unique challenges in parenting. Join Angie Grandt – The Adoption Coach – as she leads you on a journey to rebuild a relationship with your child – you know – the one who you promised to love unconditionally, but who keeps pushing you away and displaying such unsettling behaviors, and now you find you are so easily triggered by all their behaviors and ca ...
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Do you ever wonder, "What the f*ck am I doing here? Is this it?" Maybe you've got the car, career, house, family and friends - everything that SHOULD make you happy. But still, there's this tenacious sense of being trapped, stuck, lost. Or just a bit bloody empty. Welcome to the Notcast Podcast! Where two therapist-coaches - AKA thera-coaches - lay bare their psycho-spiritual journey of struggle, strife, and realisation in their soul-search for the keys to a happier, more fulfilling life.
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Raising a child is terrifying! We are expected to feed, love, clothe, bathe, and nurture our child's well-being to support their development. While there are tons of "experts" out there to help us better understand what to feed them, how to toilet train, developmental milestones, and so on - there is no "expert" to tell you exactly what YOUR child …
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Let's get real, I hear this more often than you'd think. As parents we love our kids, but behaviors are relentless, our kids repeatedly tell us how much they hate us, and we are exhausted from trying strategy after strategy, it makes sense to feel resent towards our kids. In this episode, we'll discuss things that really come up for us as parents, …
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Do you parent with fear, or with love? I think if we're being really honest about how we handle challenging behaviors in our home, we may have a realization that a shift in how we respond to behaviors could have a huge impact on our connection with our child. About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adoption Coach Angie Grandt is the Adoption Coach. She…
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Praise has it's place in life…. But have you every really thought about it's impact on the giver and the receiver? In this short but powerful episode, let's dig into praise, people pleasers, and ways we can shift how we respond to our children! About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adoption Coach Angie Grandt is the Adoption Coach. She is also a Quan…
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Have you ever thought about what LOVABILITY really means? This one is short and sweet- so listen on repeat to really let this one sink in! About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adoption Coach Angie Grandt is the Adoption Coach. She is also a Quantum Human DesignTM Specialist, Certified Level 2 & an early intervention speech therapist with extensive t…
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Attachment difficulties are at the core of what we're discussing here. This week, we'll discuss what leads to attachment difficulties, what behaviors you might notice, and some key strategies to start building connection! About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adoption Coach Angie Grandt is the Adoption Coach. She is also a Quantum Human DesignTM Spec…
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When we're experiencing a challenge, a crisis, or a trauma - it's natural to feel like a victim. In fact, we're designed with defense mechanisms in our brain to create a fear response and help us avoid similar awful situations in the future. I know as a parent dealing with unsettling, overwhelming, scary behaviors in my home - I certainly felt like…
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How often do you make decisions, and worry how others will respond? Or how often do you make decisions that are true to what you want (and not what you've been conditioned to think is best)? In this episode, we are diving in to 1) conditioning, 2) your authentic self, and 3) how to help our kids do the same! About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adop…
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Episode 132: Nobody Cares! • You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. • In this episode we talk about dealing with online hate and negativity. We speak on the importance of focusing on yourself and self preservation. • Listen to us anywhere you get your podcasts or watch the episode on our youtube …
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When you look back on your childhood - were you a "good" child or a "bad" child? How do you know? Was this a fact, or a story? In this episode, we'll discuss the truth about "good" and "bad" kids, and what we can do to help our kids be who they are truly meant to be. About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adoption Coach Angie Grandt is the Adoption Co…
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We all know the obvious needs our children have - hunger, comfort, sleep, health - which when left unmet create all kids of behaviors. But what about the "less obvious" needs? Listen to this episode for 3 key unmet needs to look for when our kids are misbehaving, and some tips to help you meet those needs! About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adopti…
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Often when we're learning new tools - we feel so pumped up to change the way we approach our child's behaviors… but then in the moment, we go right back to our habitual way of reacting. In this episode, we'll discuss how to actually shift your responding in the moment! About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adoption Coach Angie Grandt is the Adoption …
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Episode 131: Building Community with the Gather App Part Three • You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. • In this episode we partner with Gather App again and we talk about creating our Bollywood loving group on the app as well as speak on our love for Bollywood and how important it is to connect…
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When our kids are struggling - we are often struggling. We look outside our home and see other parents having fun, enjoying their kids. We see other parents raising kids who aren't defiant, disrespectful, destructive, or disconnected. When we're struggling like this, we often only see 2 possible causes - 1) either our kids are "bad kids," or 2) we …
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When a child experiences early trauma, various changes can happen to the brain. As parents, we see the effects - in behaviors, learning difficulties, developmental delays. Let's discuss key changes to the brain common in children who've experienced trauma. About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adoption Coach Angie Grandt is the Adoption Coach. She is…
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Have you ever wondered why you connect with some people better than others? This can be especially true with our kids - and can cause us parents so much distress, as we interpret this as "liking" one of our kids better than the others. Or have you ever wondered why things can be going so well with one person (or child) and then a 3rd or 4th person …
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When I meet parents who are stressed, overwhelmed, or even at the end of their rope, I often hear a common theme: "I'll be happy when my child stops (you can fill in the blank here)," or "I'll stop feeling frustrated when my child does (fill in the blank)." This is a common human reaction. We all do it to some degree - it's our default way of think…
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When facing a new challenge, where do you turn first for answers? In the past couple of decades, many of us would say the experts (or Google, lol!). We feel frustrated, overwhelmed, uncertain - and we turn to the experts. Don't get me wrong - there is value in knowledge, expertise, and specialized skills. However - you are the expert in your child.…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we partner with Gather App again and talk about exploring the app, the importance of connection and what we truly think about the app! Listen to us anywhere you get your podcasts or watch the episode on our youtube channel! Youtube- @youdontl…
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The parents I serve, the parents I connect with, the parent I was... would all say something along this line: "I am giving all of my time, my attention, my energy, my (you can probably add more here!) to my one child - they are exhausting me!" But is giving your time, your attention, your energy, etc. the same as connecting with your child? Our kid…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we talk about how getting up early has changed our lives for the better, the importance of discipline and consistency as well as having better social media habits. Listen to us anywhere you get your podcasts or watch the episode on our youtub…
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At a recent in-person workshop I held for adoptive parents, we discussed how perceptive and intuitive our kids can be! When our face shows frustration, overwhelm, or unhappiness. Some of us even hear "why are you mad mom?" Let's chat about some strategies to actually have your face match your goal - the goal to create a peaceful, happy home where y…
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As Mother's Day approaches, how are you feeling? For so many of us, it can come with more disappointment than joy, more frustration than fun, more sadness than flowers. When raising children with intense emotions or behaviors, we may be in a position to just hope that nobody gets hurt, there aren't too many tears, or that we can survive the day. An…
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So often I hear parents describe their adoption experience, and share that their early adoption means that attachment difficulties are unlikely. I'm here to challenge that, to help you see things differently for the sake of your child. About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adoption Coach Angie Grandt is the Adoption Coach. She is also an early interv…
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You're in the thick of it - daily, overwhelming behaviors. You spend your "free" time worrying about when the next blow-up, aggression, destruction, self-mutilation, or worse will happen. You see family vacations, nice dinners with family or friends, or even a trip to the zoo as impossible - something that only the lucky parents get to enjoy. What …
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If I'm so (fill in the blank - smart, experienced, resourceful, patient, etc.), why can't I connect with my child? We can feel so accomplished in so many areas of life… yet when it comes to our most challenging relationship, we can feel like such a failure. Let's discuss why, and WHAT to do about it! About your host, Angie Grandt - The Adoption Coa…
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When we are facing constant behaviors - we tend to become quick to react. We might react with consequences, with "teaching," with reminders of "the rules." But what if our children's behaviors are driven by their tricky past, coming from a place of trauma? Would you respond the same as you are now? If you child was crying, saying "I'm sad and scare…
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I know some don't want to hear this… but adoption is a traumatic event. If we as adoptive parents pretend like it's a beautiful gift that we give or child - we are fooling ourselves, and creating an environment that may give our kids the impression that they should not grieve, they should be grateful or happy. The truth is, adoption is a huge loss …
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As my daughter was growing up, I felt pretty confident in my skills. I didn't second-guess myself that often, and I trusted my inner authority to do what was best for her. I would've referred to myself as a good mom. Once my son joined the picture - this all changed. I stopped seeing myself as a good mom, and instead felt like such a failure. I was…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we partner with Gather App! We talk about loneliness in the LGBTQ+ community and why we might experience higher levels of loneliness. We then introduce you to GATHER APP and how this app aims to help with loneliness in the community and culti…
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Our stories are such a powerful way to help others. I created this podcast to help you to not only shift your most important relationships, but also to help you see that you are not alone! Join me on this journey as I discuss how I went from feeling like a confident, successful parent to feeling like a failure of a mom, not able to connect and perh…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we talk about what our Grindr profiles were like back in the day and we talk all about what is IN & OUT for 2024! Listen to us anywhere you get your podcasts or watch the episode on our youtube channel! Youtube- @youdontlovemeboys Instagram- …
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. First episode of the year- join us in the chaos as we discuss Amir in Panto and go into our little world of absurdity and stupidity to start the year! Listen to us anywhere you get your podcasts or watch the episode on our youtube channel! Youtube- @youdontl…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In our final podcast episode of the year we talk all about how we are just simply not here for New Years Resolutions! We delve into disappointments, aiming high and aligning with your goals! Listen to us anywhere you get your podcasts or watch the episode on…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode, talk all about why we have both stopped drinking and our journey from messy drunk times to becoming alcohol free fierce divas 💅🏽 Listen to us anywhere you get your podcasts or watch the episode on our youtube channel! Youtube- @youdontloveme…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode, talk all about being hacked on social media! We delve into the difficulty we faced around this as well as what it has taught us. Listen to us anywhere you get your podcasts or watch the episode on our youtube channel! Youtube- @youdontloveme…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode, we fight to be centre of attention and talk all about what we have come to learn in our 30’s: from pouring into yourself all the way to listening to what the universe is saying to you! Come listen or go over to our youtube channel to watch u…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we talk all about the time we greened out in Toronto Airport! Near death experiences, thinking we were going to prison and paranoia…come listen or go over to our youtube channel to watch us film the episode! Youtube- @youdontlovemeboys Instag…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this very special episode, Amir interviews Aamir to find out all about his first ever anthology, ‘Can I Escape My Mind?’ Tune in to find out what it’s about, the journey of writing and delve a little into Aamir’s creative mind. Instagram- @youdontlovemebo…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode Amir gets the opportunity to chat to the fanatic Dr. Erik James Escareño of Wombat Mental Health Services! They chat about the importance of mental health and well being as well as how we carry our ancestors and their history with us. Check o…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode, we talk all about the upcoming season of Drag Race UK Season 5 and give you a run down of ‘Meet The Queens’. Amir finally responds to everyone asking if Drag Race is something he would ever do…tune in and find out our thoughts! Instagram- @y…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we get extremely passionate about making your dreams a reality. We talk about the importance of daily practice to remain present and why you should push through challenges. We also speak on watching people sleepwalk through life and the impor…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode, we talk all about the incredible film: Barbie! We delve a little into identity and the important roles women have played in our lives as well as answer a few questions. Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMpodcast Learn more about you…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we throwback to our experiences of sex education in school and how we navigated learning about sex as gay men. We also talk about our experiences of sexual health and sexual health clinics! Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMpodcast …
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. In this episode we pop off about Pride and knowing your worth. We talk about how many brands continue to get things wrong as well as the importance of intent. Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMpodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcast…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. Part Two of everything about North America. We talk all about our first experience in Los Angeles, LA Drag Con and dancing in front of Ru Paul herself, as well as any challenges we faced and overcame. Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMpodcast Learn…
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You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple. Part One of everything about North America. In this episode we catch up about seeing Beyoncé before diving into our incredible and testing experiences in Toronto and New York! Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys Twitter- @YDLMpodcast Learn more about your ad choic…
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