Τα καλύτερα Scott Kilobys podcast (2024)

1
Shame and the Fear of Being Seen 31:04

17h ago31:04

31:04

In this podcast, Scott discusses how shame and guilt serve as protective layers shielding us from deeper, buried emotions. He explains that we often compartmentalize our reality, identifying with parts of ourselves that bring love and approval, while hiding the parts that evoke fear and shame. This division leads to ongoing suffering, with many ind…

1
Die Now 19:39

4d ago19:39

19:39

Scott answers the question, “What are we really afraid of?” To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

1
Avoidant Spirituality Disorder 33:03

5d ago33:03

33:03

Scott discusses how spiritual states or realizations easily become enmeshed with unprocessed buried emotions to create or strengthen an avoidant personality. To work with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

1
How to Capitalize on Your Suffering 35:35

6d ago35:35

35:35

We create suffering to meet childhood needs. When those needs and the buried emotions connected to them are made conscious, we do not need to create suffering anymore. Listen to Scott explain how to capitalize on your own suffering. Come speak to Scott for free about working one on one with him: https://kiloby.com/scott.…

1
Anxiety Is Mostly Buried Anger 22:46

7d ago22:46

22:46

In this episode, Scott discusses the intriguing connection between anxiety and buried anger, highlighting recent scientific findings that suggest a significant link. He emphasizes the importance of verifying if your anxiety stems from repressed anger by taking our free repression test. Scott explains that understanding the mechanism of buried anger…

1
How the Sense of Separation Forms 25:12

8d ago25:12

25:12

In this episode, Scott explores the concept of separation from the perspective of the unconscious, highlighting how buried emotions contribute to suffering. He discusses how this sense of separation arises from self-contraction due to trauma experienced in childhood, particularly with unconscious parents. By steering the conversation away from trad…

1
Selfish Service 33:38

9d ago33:38

33:38

Scott takes a look at whether being of service to others is ever selfless if we’re driven by unmet needs from childhood and if the price we pay for being so driven is worth the reward. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott..

1
My Aggressive Peace 24:47

10d ago24:47

24:47

In this podcast, Scott delves into the concept of covert aggression that often lurked beneath his seemingly peaceful exterior. He reveals how this behavior coming from buried anger shifted the responsibility for difficult conversations or conflicts onto others, allowing him to maintain a façade of being the "good guy" while avoiding addressing deep…

1
An Awakening That Ends Suffering 26:27

12d ago26:27

26:27

Scott shares how the topic of what true awakening is has changed for him over the years with suffering being his greatest teacher. To work directly with Scott, https://kiloby.com/scott.

1
Taking (Emotional) Responsibility 28:49

12d ago28:49

28:49

In this episode, Scott discusses taking responsibility for the buried emotions that produce suffering instead of making responsibility a moral or ethical issue that keeps us in our heads and keeps separation alive. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

1
PESD - Post-Election Stress Disorder 12:14

14d ago12:14

12:14

In the podcast, Scott introduces the concept of "post-election stress disorder," a term he coined to describe the emotional turmoil experienced after a candidate's loss in a presidential election. He suggests that this suffering often stems from unresolved childhood trauma and affects many people for the duration of the four-year election cycle. Sc…

1
A Needy Path 31:08

14d ago31:08

31:08

In this compelling episode, Scott delves into the profound impact of unmet needs tied to buried emotions on our suffering and our attempts to alleviate that suffering through spiritual practices. He emphasizes that as long as these needs remain unconscious, we find ourselves stuck in an avoidant spiritual path, failing to address the root causes of…

1
Motivated to Procrastinate 36:40

14d ago36:40

36:40

Scott shares the true motivation behind procrastination. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

1
My Happy 55th Birthday 6:37

15d ago6:37

6:37

Join Scott as he shares his 55th birthday and upcoming surprises with you. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

1
Critique of Immediate Nondual Paths 34:12

16d ago34:12

34:12

Scott critiques the group of teachings and practices known as neo-advaita and other awareness- or now- based teachings and practices that point people to the recognition of freedom immediately. He provides a solid science-based context to reveal why these kinds of teachings miss emotional repression (the root of suffering) and therefore can expose …

1
Dissolving Separation 30:42

17d ago30:42

30:42

Scott discusses dissolving separation by making conscious how we create it for safety and love. This approach allows us to lovingly welcome all parts of ourselves instead of hiding in the body the parts we don’t like and identifying with the parts that get us love and keep us safe. To divide ourselves off in that way leaves separation in place. To …

1
Simplifying the Attachment Styles - An Energetic Dance 22:40

18d ago22:40

22:40

In this podcast episode, Scott explores his personal experiences and insights gained from working with individuals on the topic of the attachment styles in relationship. He simplifies this complex subject into an energetic dance influenced by fundamental needs for love and safety. As long as we remain unconscious of these needs, driven by the fear …

1
I Can’t Help But Cry on Election Day 2024 33:40

21d ago33:40

33:40

Politics is personal and we’re often motivated by unprocessed emotion and trauma from childhood to identify with one party or another. Scott breaks down and cries in this episode, not because he’s afraid of one candidate winning over the other, but at the sheer unconsciousness of believing that we can solve the world’s issues from unprocessed traum…

1
The Real Scandal in Spirituality 32:39

23d ago32:39

32:39

Scott breaks down what he sees as the real scandal in spirituality, the attempts to bring avoidant eastern practices to the masses while emotional repression remains untouched in the bodies of students. Scott explains how this is like a ticking time bomb with delayed but devastating results. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/sco…

1
OVER-GIVING to Others and UNDER-LOVING Ourselves 34:56

24d ago34:56

34:56

In this podcast episode, Scott explores his own co-dependency coming from buried anger and how over-giving to others and presenting himself as false was how he unconsciously sought to get childhood unmet needs for safety and love met. Listen and you may find a little, if not a lot, of yourself in this episode if you have buried anger. To work direc…

1
Selling Out on the Spiritual Path 24:37

28d ago24:37

24:37

Selling out on the spiritual path is like selling out as an artist, but the stakes are so much higher. Scott explains. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

1
Intimacy Will Come to You 29:20

29d ago29:20

29:20

Scott shares intimately about intimacy. To work with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

1
You’ll Discover Real Authenticity and Vulnerability in KI. 31:52

1M ago31:52

31:52

In this episode, Scott explores the impact of repressing emotions, questioning whether those who suppress their feelings turn into rage-filled individuals or become engulfed in sadness and grief. He emphasizes that true self-discovery comes from addressing the root causes of our suffering. By examining how repressed anger, along with buried feeling…

1
FROZEN PRESENCE - When You Can’t Feel What You Are! 38:38

1M ago38:38

38:38

Scott gets down to the secret sauce of KI - the direct discovery of the core frozen fears hidden in the body that create suffering and separation. To work directly with Scott, visit. https://kiloby.com/scott.

1
The Narcissism of Emotional Repression 30:03

1M ago30:03

30:03

In the podcast, Scott responds to a question from someone he's training in KI who wondered if clearing emotional repression would make them selfish. Scott explained that, in reality, the opposite is true. He emphasizes that selfishness or narcissism stems from holding back emotions, which leads to the creation of false identities and strategies for…

1
Authentic Relationship 30:37

1M ago30:37

30:37

In this podcast, Scott delves into the concept of authentic relating, emphasizing that true connection is hindered by buried emotions. He explains that when we are driven by unconscious needs for safety, love, and other essentials, we create suffering in our relationships. Many people tend to seek external solutions—like practices or other individu…

1
The Needs You Ignore Become the Suffering You Abhor 23:34

2M ago23:34

23:34

In this podcast, Scott discusses how unmet childhood needs for love and safety unconsciously lead us into bypassing on spiritual or healing paths. He explains that suffering, deeply rooted in the unconscious body, shows up in relationships, causing disconnection and prompting us to seek relief through various practices. However, because of buried e…

1
The Shaming of Addicts 29:11

2M ago29:11

29:11

In this podcast, Scott explains how buried emotions drive addictions, yet we remain unaware of these drivers, allowing shame and the cycle of addiction itself to distract us from the root of it all - for safety and love. Some of our best intentions to recover or help others recover are coming from buried rage. Scott shares his personal experience o…

1
Emotional Release or Just Relief? 12:37

2M ago12:37

12:37

In this episode of Scott's podcast, he delves into the nuances of emotional release on the spiritual healing journey. Scott discusses how, in our quest for spiritual experiences, we may inadvertently focus on releasing emotions that feel safer, rather than addressing the deeper, buried emotions that truly drive our suffering. This emotional repress…

1
Authentic Listening and the Feeling of Not Being Heard 29:06

2M ago29:06

29:06

In this podcast, Scott explores authentic listening and its connection to emotional repression - especially buried anger. He explains that when emotions are buried, it's challenging to listen authentically, as people often freeze, shut down, or flee during difficult conversations. Scott reveals that the common feeling of not being heard actually st…

1
A Death Sentence of “Acceptance” [Trigger Warning] 30:46

2M ago30:46

30:46

In this episode, Scott shares his journey as a non-dual teacher who bypassed buried anger, leading to chronic nerve pain that almost became a "death sentence." He and other teachers have inadvertently encouraged this bypass in millions of people. Scott reveals how he dissolved the pain by making unconscious anger conscious. He explains why simply r…

1
The Co-Dependent’s Narcissism Shadow 26:14

2M ago26:14

26:14

In this podcast episode, Scott explores Sam, a codependent therapist with buried anger who enters relationships with women who have narcissistic tendencies due to their inability to show empathy. He disconnects from them due to his avoidant nature and then teaches others to maintain repression by labeling less empathetic people as narcissists, rein…

1
We Need Addiction (Until We Don’t Anymore) 20:23

2M ago20:23

20:23

In this podcast, Scott explains that addiction feels as essential as water or air because it helps the system feel safe and loved by keeping buried emotions hidden. The cycle of addiction continues because the need for safety and love stems from these suppressed emotions. Traditional recovery programs and Eastern practices often fail to address thi…

1
How to Tell Someone to F*ck Off (Gracefully) 27:20

2M ago27:20

27:20

Scott is in rare form, clarifying the difference between before and after emotional repression with regard to the timeless human experience of telling others to fu*k off. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

1
Angry Monks and Vulnerable Dictators - Where Are They? 38:41

2M ago38:41

38:41

Scott humorously notes that you'll never find an angry monk or a vulnerable dictator. What we reject is often within us. By embracing all qualities that create separation, we find freedom and authenticity, instead of being trapped in dualistic mirrors. Listen to this light-hearted, impactful talk on true freedom. If you are interested in working wi…

1
Beyond the Habit of Suffering 33:14

3M ago33:14

33:14

Our main habit of unconsciously seeking safety and love is like gravity - it always wins - until we make the unconscious conscious. Listen as Scott explains why some people develop a regular KI practice that ends suffering and brings authenticity and others don’t. The answer lies below the surface. To speak to Scott about the 90-day program he ment…

1
The Secret Is Buried 29:18

3M ago29:18

29:18

Want to manifest success, love, good health, or freedom? The unconscious seeks only safety and love thereby thwarting our efforts. Your unrealized potential is waiting for you in the one place you l’re afraid to look. Scott shares the solution. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.…

1
The Source of Seeking 28:50

3M ago28:50

28:50

Scott points to how both our suffering and our efforts to alleviate it often come from the same hidden source. Discover his solution to this seemingly insurmountable doublebind! To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/Scott.

1
How to End Suffering 101 37:07

3M ago37:07

37:07

Scott discusses how the fundamental need to know ourselves as awareness and to allow it all doesn’t get met and we don’t want it to be met because we’re driven by an unconscious need to stay safe and get love. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

1
Something IS Missing on the Avoidant Spiritual Path 36:02

3M ago36:02

36:02

Find the missing key to freedom but also why sabotage is just safer, frankly. Work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

1
[Revised] The Future of K.I. - Unmet Needs 33:23

3M ago33:23

33:23

Scott shares the future of K.I. and how unmet needs become unconscious demands. We create our own suffering. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

1
The Repression of the Empath 53:29

3M ago53:29

53:29

Scott shares his personal transformation from being a very sensitive, introverted, and disconnected kid/adult to authenticity via emotional repression inquiry. Listen for unique insights around where our sensitivity really comes from and why some of us have to hide it. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course whi…

1
Covert Agendas in Spirituality - 30 min podcast episode 35:57

3M ago35:57

35:57

Scott picks up the brick at both ends of the emotional repression spectrum and the covert and overt agendas in teachers and helpers. When we are teaching or helping, we have to be concerned first with getting the log out of our own eye and processing any unconsciousness that drives us. If we fail to do that, we enable the continuation of the very s…

1
The Radical Teaching 1:00:21

4M ago1:00:21

1:00:21

Scott shares a radical awakening path which departs significantly from what he would have called “radical” ten years ago. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/men…

1
Somatic Testing - The Simplest Way to Spot Emotional Repression In Your Body. 1:08:24

4M ago1:08:24

1:08:24

Scott shows listeners how to take everyday visible suffering like depression, addiction, pain, and resistance and see its connection to buried emotions. To learn KI repression inquiry on your own, here's our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here's ourseven day Mentorship Discove…

1
SICK GOOD BOY - How Being Good Was Bad For My Physical, Mental, & Emotional Health 56:14

4M ago56:14

56:14

Scott shares about Goodism and tells his own story of being a good boy and holding anger back which led to a lifetime of falseness and suffering. All the bad parts come out in this episode where Scott pulls no punches to help those who can’t yet see that the social and relational rewards of being good, peaceful, nice, or perfect carry a massive dar…

1
Troy Didn’t Trust Himself - A Story of Avoidance and Betrayal 39:00

4M ago39:00

39:00

Scott tells the short story of Troy and Sarah who both cheated on each other for the same reason but neither one could see the real reason. This special episode brings to light the issues discussed in Scott’s recent episode “The Avoidant’s Guide to Authentic Spirituality.” To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course…

1
The Avoidant’s Guide to Authentic Spirituality 1:16:01

4M ago1:16:01

1:16:01

Scott takes you first through a somatic test to reveal the avoidant programming in your body. He then shows how avoidance, avoidant attachment style, and avoidant personality disorder point to these core programs in the body for purposes of a practice. Scott then explains his guide to authenticity by inviting listeners to journal each day what is a…

1
The Case Against Awareness 42:56

4M ago42:56

42:56

Scott makes the case against awareness and his prior teaching. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-kit/. The characters in this podcast epis…

1
Dom & Sub - A Story of Love & Unconscious Power Dynamics 1:29:59

4M ago1:29:59

1:29:59

You’ve never heard a love story like this before. Listen to this hour and a half unique episode where Scott explains very common unconscious emotional power dynamics through a simple story of two people who love each other as best as they can from the trauma that drives them. In this story, Scott takes us through a fictitious story about transforma…

Podcasts που αξίζει να ακούσετε

Scott Kilobys Podcasts

Podcasts που αξίζει να ακούσετε

Οδηγός γρήγορης αναφοράς