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Breaking The Emotional Legacy with Fern Schumer Chapman (pt 2)

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Το περιεχόμενο παρέχεται από το Ed Coambs - Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™. Όλο το περιεχόμενο podcast, συμπεριλαμβανομένων των επεισοδίων, των γραφικών και των περιγραφών podcast, μεταφορτώνεται και παρέχεται απευθείας από τον Ed Coambs - Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™ ή τον συνεργάτη της πλατφόρμας podcast. Εάν πιστεύετε ότι κάποιος χρησιμοποιεί το έργο σας που προστατεύεται από πνευματικά δικαιώματα χωρίς την άδειά σας, μπορείτε να ακολουθήσετε τη διαδικασία που περιγράφεται εδώ https://el.player.fm/legal.

“You have to let go of the anger, and this may be the hardest part of it all, because you have to face your own feelings and accept that you do not want this to eat you alive for the rest of your life.”

How do you reconcile with a sibling who has become a stranger? In this captivating episode, our host Ed Coambs is joined again by Fern Schumer Chapman, the insightful author of "Brothers, Sisters, Strangers." Fern delves into the complex dynamics of sibling estrangement and reconciliation, drawing on her personal experiences with Holocaust trauma. She shares how her mother's harrowing escape from Nazi Germany cast long shadows over their family life. Get ready to learn about the profound healing that comes from sharing these stories and the emotional relief it brings when past traumas are openly acknowledged.

Ed and Fern also unpack the unique parenting patterns within Holocaust survivor families, laying bare the psychological impacts of extreme trauma, favoritism, and memorial children. Fern's poignant anecdotes reveal how children in these families often become parentified, prematurely taking on adult responsibilities. Their discussion sheds light on the intricate interplay between identity and inherited trauma, providing a deeper understanding of how these factors shape subsequent generations.

Ed and Fern continue their conversation on navigating sibling estrangement and the arduous road to reconciliation. The Hicks Dignity Model offers a pathway through genuine listening and empathy, but they also emphasize the importance of acknowledging when a relationship is beyond repair. Setting boundaries with toxic individuals is crucial, and sometimes walking away is the healthiest option. All this and more in this episode of Healthy Love and Money.

Key Topics:

  • Sibling Estrangement and Reconciliation (00:00)
  • Impact of Holocaust Trauma on Family Life (02:53)
  • Healing Through Storytelling and Witnessing (06:54)
  • Memorial Children and Parentified Children (11:16)
  • Sibling Estrangement and Parental Responsibilities (29:40)
  • Empathy and Listening in Reconciliation (30:04)
  • Boundaries and Toxic Relationships (32:38)
  • Fern Schumer Chapman’s Work and Resources (35:29)

Resources:


Connect With Healthy Love and Money:

  1. Schedule your free 30-minute Discovery Call About Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™.
  2. Learn about your money and attachment style with this short Attachment Style Quiz.
  3. Buy the Double Award Winning Book: The Healthy Love and Money Way.
  4. Hit Follow on Your Favorite Podcast Player To Get the Latest Episodes.

  continue reading

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Manage episode 442099915 series 3379125
Το περιεχόμενο παρέχεται από το Ed Coambs - Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™. Όλο το περιεχόμενο podcast, συμπεριλαμβανομένων των επεισοδίων, των γραφικών και των περιγραφών podcast, μεταφορτώνεται και παρέχεται απευθείας από τον Ed Coambs - Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™ ή τον συνεργάτη της πλατφόρμας podcast. Εάν πιστεύετε ότι κάποιος χρησιμοποιεί το έργο σας που προστατεύεται από πνευματικά δικαιώματα χωρίς την άδειά σας, μπορείτε να ακολουθήσετε τη διαδικασία που περιγράφεται εδώ https://el.player.fm/legal.

“You have to let go of the anger, and this may be the hardest part of it all, because you have to face your own feelings and accept that you do not want this to eat you alive for the rest of your life.”

How do you reconcile with a sibling who has become a stranger? In this captivating episode, our host Ed Coambs is joined again by Fern Schumer Chapman, the insightful author of "Brothers, Sisters, Strangers." Fern delves into the complex dynamics of sibling estrangement and reconciliation, drawing on her personal experiences with Holocaust trauma. She shares how her mother's harrowing escape from Nazi Germany cast long shadows over their family life. Get ready to learn about the profound healing that comes from sharing these stories and the emotional relief it brings when past traumas are openly acknowledged.

Ed and Fern also unpack the unique parenting patterns within Holocaust survivor families, laying bare the psychological impacts of extreme trauma, favoritism, and memorial children. Fern's poignant anecdotes reveal how children in these families often become parentified, prematurely taking on adult responsibilities. Their discussion sheds light on the intricate interplay between identity and inherited trauma, providing a deeper understanding of how these factors shape subsequent generations.

Ed and Fern continue their conversation on navigating sibling estrangement and the arduous road to reconciliation. The Hicks Dignity Model offers a pathway through genuine listening and empathy, but they also emphasize the importance of acknowledging when a relationship is beyond repair. Setting boundaries with toxic individuals is crucial, and sometimes walking away is the healthiest option. All this and more in this episode of Healthy Love and Money.

Key Topics:

  • Sibling Estrangement and Reconciliation (00:00)
  • Impact of Holocaust Trauma on Family Life (02:53)
  • Healing Through Storytelling and Witnessing (06:54)
  • Memorial Children and Parentified Children (11:16)
  • Sibling Estrangement and Parental Responsibilities (29:40)
  • Empathy and Listening in Reconciliation (30:04)
  • Boundaries and Toxic Relationships (32:38)
  • Fern Schumer Chapman’s Work and Resources (35:29)

Resources:


Connect With Healthy Love and Money:

  1. Schedule your free 30-minute Discovery Call About Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™.
  2. Learn about your money and attachment style with this short Attachment Style Quiz.
  3. Buy the Double Award Winning Book: The Healthy Love and Money Way.
  4. Hit Follow on Your Favorite Podcast Player To Get the Latest Episodes.

  continue reading

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